We Gemini men love the appearance of calmness under fire when actually we are terrified when we lose control

Lovabletori… I am a Leo woman qith a Gemini man 11yrs younger than me but ive known for over 20 yrs. It jus happened that we got together. We have been together since 2016 but he me go a couple times in between 2016 and 2018 for someone else. But the last time i let him i let him go https://besthookupwebsites.org/nl/edarling-overzicht/ in 2019. It was my biggest mistake because I never realized how much i loved him until i was the one who left. He took me back and our relationship and love for one another gotten stronger. My only problem with him is that he has a problem with communicating with me. For example…he comes to visit me and he compulsivly jumps up n leaves with no regard to letting me know he left or is leaving. No messages…no texts no phone call. He doesnt respond to my messages until i cool off. Mind u what he left for wasnt another woman. He couldve drove his aunt home in a different city but his regard for common courtesy or acknowledgement that he should let me know is not there. No matter how many times i tell him im more mad because he didnt say nothing to me then ignored me. Its been happening alot lately n hes making me crazy! I feel like he may have found someone else but i have no proof. I dont know how to handle this situation because i cant let go. There more but one prob at a time… anyone have any opinions or advicr for this Leo woman.

There seems to be a commitment issue w/your Gemini man. My Leo woman is 9 yrs younger than me but possess far more wisdom than me and I submitted to her being “in charge” because I recognize her abilities. My issue is that demeaning way she talks to me with and the “I’m always right” she smashes in my face. Maybe, just maybe could it be how you talk too him? When this happens we’re either thrown out or we leave.

She say I love you and want marry you but honestly I know if she going to leave again

Well I’m an Gemini man I not the one running but my Leo woman been on and of with me for 6 yrs. This year first yr she been putting so much effort she left me in may ask me to go in an country trip in e back this week. If she do I just done. I am in love with her. But I just don’t know.

I am a Leo woman head over heels for my Gemini man(2nd Gemini husband ??) Most signs find Gemini’s to be hard to keep up with. ent and actions. Me personally it what keeps me on my toes. Yes challenging I’ll admit. Despite all of these things it grounds me to have a tangible item to have to keep up with. Leo women bore pretty quickly. The fun between this duo( doing absolutely nothing or absolutely everything) is unmatched and the most natural bond. It comes so easy. I agree ??? if Mr. Gemini left I don’t believe he was using you. I believe he actually favored you quite a bit, they tend to sort out what a person needs mentally, sexually, financially, spiritually and physically. I believe he provided those things for you as a act selflessness( Gemini’s) aren’t purposely selfish. He just couldn’t find a reason to stay. Maybe no compromises were made on your part or his. Or maybe you guys didn’t have “the TALK” which is extremely important and NOT in the heat of the moment on both parts. As uncomfortable as we are(Leo woman) accepting direction or criticism when we trust that the intentions are pure we may pretend not to hear but while alone we’ll sulk over the brutal truth and change immediately. I’m sorry about the split beloved. DO NOT LET THE NEXT ONE GET AWAY ??